Sex & Relationship Couples Conselling
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How often have you put aside time, to have a discussion about your relationship, your intimacy and needs.
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How well has that gone?
INVESTING in COUPLES COUNSELLING IS WORTH IT!
I provide Couples Sex & Intimacy counselling to people from Geelong and the Surf Coast. I also offer zoom sessions to people all over the world.
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I am Sex and Relationship Coach & Somatic Sexologist. A Gottman Institute trained Couples therapist, that can support couples of any age, to help love, sex and connection to flourish.
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I help couples open the door to the next level intimacy.
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Professional support for your Relationship.
Making space to have an open, facilitated conversation around your emotional & sexual needs and the needs of the relationship, is healthy and a vital part of staying together and growing together.
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WHAT TYPE OF SEX & RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST AM I?
I have unique skills as a Therapist. I'm trained in many modalities to cover a wide variety of issues from the physical, to emotional, to the essence of who you are as a Sensual Erotic Being.
I have personally been in a long term marriage and I am experienced with working and relating in both a monogamous and poly-amorous framework.
I welcome LGBTQIA couples in my clinic.
As a Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach, I offer clients more than just Sexology and traditional Relationship Therapy.
I'm highly attuned to read and listen to the subtle messages of clients needs and provide a safe, light- hearted and inspirational environment for change to occur. READ MORE about my training.
Somatic Sexology- meaning we work with the integration of body and mind, and practice engagement skills that are profound, and life-changing.
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I'm trained in fundamentals of relationship needs and vital POLARITY, PRESENCE & COMMUNICATION SKILLS and years of TANTRA to help couples shift out of power dynamics that may be stifling and shutting down the spark and connection that couples often crave.
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I work with:
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Libido challenges
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Loss of connection
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Communication issues
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Anxiety & Body shame
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Trust issues
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Desire Discrepancy
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Pain issues
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Inability to orgasm
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Self esteem
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Arousal, erectile and ejaculation issues
WILL I LEARN NEW SKILLS?
Yes! Life changing, empowering, juicy skills that you've always needed.
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From communication to learning to drop into presence and build connection with your partner.
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Is Sex scary for you? Do you feel very little pleasure or complete disinterest? A facilitated conversation with a trained professional can make all of this so much easier to discuss.
I am a gentle and an empowering Professional to help you get out of feeling stuck and re-connecting again, re-sparking your libido, helping with issues around arousal and control, trust and intimacy.
Or simply learning how to be a better lover.
I teach the fundamental tools of connection, listening, presence, communication and establishing ways to help you both move towards each other to connect, and reach the potential with your body and your relationship.
I can also teach more advanced skills, from tease, to elements of dominance, kink, Tantra, Erotic massage techniques, high level communication skills, building your capacity to be multi- orgasmic, discover Anal play and more...
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WHAT HAPPENS IN A COUPLES THERAPY SESSION?
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Common questions below:
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We begin with a gentle guided Body Scan & establish the intention for the session from you both. Often we enter our relationship with a tool kit of moves, we think has always worked on others and will naturally work in this relationship. Some individuals find that it is frustrating that they're not getting the same response. Or that their partner does not know how to turn them on or are missing essential basic needs.
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We find out: what is working, what isn't, what is getting in the way of connection and enjoyment of intimacy. We will spend time helping you connect and doing practices. You may be given homework to improve your results.
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Cultural, family and religious backgrounds can have a very big impact on how individuals lean into intimacy. These beliefs can effect confidence, what we learnt about sex and relationships and personal sexual expression.
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We cover things like, resolving challenging patterns of relating, learning about pleasure anatomy, sexual scripts, different ways to expand your sex life, what to do when one partner has a lower libido, re-kindling love, helping couples have better communication skills, consent, how to give and receive, touch techniques, what you might desire, how to enjoy sex more, learning to become orgasmic, last longer and establishing greater presence and connection and much more...
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CAN YOU SEE US ONLINE?
Yes, online sessions are highly effective. You will still be engaging in practical exercises and given homework.
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HOW LONG ARE SESSIONS?
75 minutes in person and 6o mins over zoom.
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DO YOU SEE SAME SEX COUPLES?
Yes.
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WE ARE POLYAMOROUS OR INTERESTED IN OPENING UP OUR RELATIONSHIP- CAN YOU HELP?
Yes. Counselling and coaching can help establish your why and keep connection in your dynamic and explore your boundaries.
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WE ARE MARRIED WITH KIDS- CAN WE GET HELP WITH COMMUNICATION?
I work with couples with communication issues, & trust issues. I understand the challenges of marriage, stress & children.
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CAN YOU HELP BRING THE SPARK & DESIRE BACK? I'VE LOST MY LIBIDO!
Yes. Desire can be rekindled and it begins with you taking a step and getting support, education and mentoring.
WILL IT BE JUST TALKING & COUNSELLING?
No, however we will be discussing a broad range of things. Sex Therapy with Embodied Sexology, addresses the needs of both individuals, it works to establish what is working and how to expand on that with practical tools,
Sexological body-work and solutions to any challenging intimacy issue.
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WILL WE BE TAKING OUR CLOTHES OFF?
MOST LIKELY NO.
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Much of your session will be conversations, sharing activities, connection and presence exercises and touch that can be done with clothes on.
This is a learning environment. As your Educator, we want to ensure that the best outcome supports you both as a couple. I never remove my clothes in a session.
Most learning can be done with clothing, however, some couples are wanting and needing more hands on support with engaging physically with their partner.
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It is a clothing optional environment.
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WHY SHOULD I INVEST IN COACHING?
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Couples that engage in quality time, understand each others needs and dreams, learn how to communicate more consciously, that are sexually intimate and make connection a priority, are more likely to stay together, live longer and be more successful in life.
Having a facilitator and Coach helps you listen to each other and find a common ground to re-ignite pleasure and connection.
Sex & Relationship Therapy is life changing for couples and for you as an individual.
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CAN I GET PERSONAL COACHING FROM YOU AT THE SAME TIME?
YES. Many couples, choose to be individually coached to support their sensual and sexual growth, work through trauma, and other intimacy challenges.
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HOW MANY SESSIONS WILL WE NEED?
I recommend 3 sessions for all couples. And for some couples, they may need further mentoring. This will help build on skills and the confidence to get the best results from your time with me.
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Some individuals require and benefit greatly from individual sessions, along side couples work.
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