Frequently asked questions... (curiosity is so sexy)
I'm having challenges with low libido, do you work with this?
Yes. I'm trained to support people experiencing low desire and low libido. I also have a background in embodiment and sensuality techniques to build and activate eros and energy to help people become more orgasmic, along with sexology training.
Are you covered by Medicare?
No. Currently counselling and sexology are not rebated under medicare. I do offer packages to reduce costs when working over 3 sessions or more and you will find my sessions are highly competitive.
Do you do couples / marriage therapy?
Yes. I specialise in couples struggling with desire discrepancy, communication challenges, lost connection, infidelity and stagnation.
I'm trained in Gottman therapy, Conscious relating and communication and Tantra; techniques that work holistically to help bring couples back into understanding and greater connection. I love working with couples, I love helping couples learn to read the signals of their partner, hear and listen to needs and become more connected and loving with a thriving intimate life. Sessions use engagement pieces and learning outcomes along with general counselling.
I need counselling to discuss other things that I'm struggling with, can you help?
Yes I am a Counsellor and Coach. I help individuals and couples around dating, love, sex and intimacy.
I've never really been good at sex or felt much pleasure, will sex therapy help me?
Absolutely yes. Sexologists help clients that may have had traumatic histories, no experience or struggle with pain or anxiety. I'm and educator, therapist and counsellor, to help you learn the tools and communication skills to expand your somatic capacity to feel pleasure, ease and joy, not only sexually but also in life.
My partner doesn't want to have sex anymore, what should I do?
Book a free call, then lets immediately begin supporting you with counselling. Sex and intimacy are so important, like a glue that keeps you connected. Changes can be concerning however what is important is that your are both understood and feel capable of staying connected and finding ways to be intimacte.
It's often important to have your own session by yourself to discuss the issues from your perspective. I am here to answer any questions from your partner and to help you see the benefits and often relief and positivity from attending sex therapy and counselling together in Geelong or via telehealth.
Are sessions confidential, there are things I want to disclose that I have no one else to talk to...?
Yes. 100% confidential.
Is Sex therapy & counselling with you just about sex?
No. Sexology addresses more than just sex, things like, body shame, trust issues, infidelity, pain, fears, the inability to engage or initiate, confidence issues, how to communicate your needs, expressing your truth and authentically showing up.
Do you do touch based therapy?
Yes, I can. But only for those that require and agree to working this way, I will always offer the best options that you can choose to take or not. This is called an educational agreement. Sexological bodywork is a modality that can be included into my work. Some clients and couples need help and new ways to engage. They need to be shown and guided to somatically learn how to safely and comfortable move back into confidence, trust and pleasure with intimcy and touch.
Do you have sex with me and can you take your clothes off in a Sex therapy or Couples Counselling session?
No. As a professional that adheres to the strict guidelines of the SSEAA. (Somatic Sex Educators Assocation of Australasia.) when working as a Somatic Sexologist in a Sex therapy session, I do not get naked. But you can.
However most of my clients achieve their outcome fully clothed. As a Somatic Sexologist and Sexuality Coach with a back ground in Tantra and embodiment, I can support clients in a trauma informed and educational approach to resolving challenges with intimacy, pleasure and erotic awakening.
Can you help me with dating and attracting the right person?
Yes. As someone who has been single and in long relationships I can help you as a coach and mentor. Using tantra, feminine and masculine dynamics, polarity, consent and conscious communication. It's highly beneficial having a coach to learn to trust and follow the messages of your heart and body.
Do you see queer couples?
Yes. I have worked with queer couples, all gender expressions are welcome in my space.
We want to open up or relationship or we are currently open and need help, can you see us?
Yes, not only have I gone through specialised training in this area, I have a lived experience of open and poly relating and life style. This is a judgement free space and completely confidential.
I have erectile dysfunction & Premature ejaculation, can you help me?
Yes. Not only will we be doing traditional sexology, I am a somatic therapist and I can do hands-on bodywork under an educational & therapeutic framework. We discuss this over a session and build on technique with homework. I get great results, over a number of sessions we will uncover what your blocks are and help you learn essential techniques to turn down the stress and increase arousal in a controlled manner so you can last longer and have better sex.